If there is one thing we know for sure, it is that during your wedding there will be a crisis of some sort. No matter how big, (the cake falls) or how small, the limo is 5 minutes late, anything that occurs off schedule or out of the ordinary can be a crisis in your eyes. Intertwined Eventsand Becky Hill Photography have some tips and tricks to help you survive any wedding crisis!
To start off, don’t sweat the small stuff – you can almost always turn something small into a positive. If a bridesmaid is a little late, use it as extra time for you to get the attention of hair and makeup! If guests are late to arrive to the ceremony, use those few precious minutes to have quiet time to yourself so that you can reflect on your day! And, if your future parents-in-law are taking you to whit’s-end, understand that they are just as excited and emotional as your family is about the momentous occassion!
However, if something bigger should occur, like rain or a dress rips, turn to theprofessionals you hired andlet them work their magic!Chances are likelythey are already working on the solution and its just a matter of some flexibility on your part and creativity on theirs. For every outdoor wedding venue location, there is always a “Plan B” indoor site. Stay calm, understand that things may change from the original vision but they may turn out even better than you had imagined. So its raining,pshhh not going to get you down!Justbring all the florals and lights from the outdoors in and create your own garden, beach or forest oasis inside! How cozy and creative! Guests will surely love it! And it will be a fun story to tell for years to come! There is always a silver lining!
The way you handle a wedding crisis is extremely important as is how you treat those family, friends and vendors that areworking hard to make everything perfect again! Class, poise, and a little bit of humor can go a long way to make the unplanned – a fabulous, spontaneous success!Remember, whether its just how you planned it or strayed a bit off course -this day is for you and the love of your life to commit to one another and celebrate that committment with your very favorite people! ENJOY IT!
The Ladies of Intertwined Events & Becky Hill Photography